a little rant!!

hi, ok, soooooo, im seriously getting really annoyed with people in this apartment complaining about how noone does the dishes or noone cleans the living room. if you have a problem with it, CLEAN IT YOURSELF! when the dishes pileup, it can be a little annoying, but i still just clean them anyway when i have time, instead of being immature and sorting dishes out by who used them. learning how to live with other people involves a little give and take, and it really irritates me when people have to make a big deal out of something stupid like that. raghh! GROW UP!!

the streets of love...

earlier this week, i had the extreme displeasure of watching one of my friends get dumped by her boyfriend. the worst of it was that she didnt see it coming. completely blindsided. the last weekend they had spent together hadn't exactly gone perfectly, but she just figured they just had things they needed to talk about and work through to make their relationship stronger. ive never seen anyone so entirely crushed. it was heartbreaking to watch. she trusted a guy with all of her heart, and when it came right down to it, he didn't return the feelings. it made me particularly aware of the large amount of strength it takes to enter in to a relationship. i mean, how do you know who is worth taking that chance on? you may start off perfect, happy, butterflies abound from the excitement of it all, but when it all comes down to it, how long til one of you loses the motivation to make it work? entering in to a relationship is allowing yourself to let the walls down and become completely vulnerable, and trusting the other person to not make you regret it. ive had my share of disappointments, but i hope i never have to experience the pain i saw on my friend's face.